Saturday, April 25, 2009

Bishop Shumway

Our Bishop has been called to serve as the new Stake President. On Monday, after he was called, we made a plan! All the ward members were called and invited to gather and surprize him in his front yard that evening. It was amazing how many ward members came. Not a surprize just amazing. Bishop Shumway loves and is loved by everyone in our ward. We sang
The Spirit Of God Like A Fire Is Burning and his favorite Now Let Us Rejoice.
And then we were invited in. Which, of course, we were hoping to get that invitation. There were so many people that I didn't think we would be able to all fit in but they opened the back door and the kids all stepped outside. It was just so good.
This is my favorite picture from the evening. You can see that Bishop was so touched by the gesture. And their daughter, Calli, is just all smiles. What I love is Heidi ~ the woman behind the Man. I can just see how much she loves him. Zina Porter, who is 105, wanted to come and speak with him. She had to sit in the car and he went over to her.
Does this picture show just how much he was loved by the youth?

Wall to wall people.
I will always be grateful to Bishop Shumway for asking me to serve as a
Relief Society President under him. I have had so many beautiful experiences that have taught me so many things. He thinks the best of people. He is the most Christlike person I have ever known. It has been my priviledge to have worked with him. I don't expect to have
an experience like this again.












They Make Me Laugh





When my first child was born I remember feeling this

huge love inside my heart.

I had never felt that before. I am happy to have

children and to embrace

that kind of love. But....I have to say that loving Grandchildren

takes my breathe away.





I feel very responsible to these children. But I am

not the parent and don't have parenting responsibilities. That frees me

to just play with them and let them make me laugh. David and I both feel

that our responsbility to these children is to help them feel

secure and loved and have a heritage and identity. We love them!








Lee's Bridal Shower in Peoria

Last night we attended a Bridal Shower for Lee, my youngest daughter.
It was given by her soon to be Mother-in-law, Rena and my daughter, Heidi.
It was fun. Lee is marrying into a good family. The room was filled with
Aaron's cousins, aunts, grandmother and grand-aunts.
They came to support this girl. I was glad to be there and observe
how they treated each other and how easy they laughed and
interacted with each other. And I was happy to see them treat Lee so well. This is Rena, Aaron's mom.

Heidi had asked Aaron some questions and then asked the same
questions to Lee. If she didn't get them right she had to chew
a piece of Bubblicious. Poor Lee ~ she had to chew the whole pack!


Connie, my-daughter-in-law and Me.

Some of Aaron's family.

Jill and Paisley.








Coleen's Back Porch

Last weekend David and I met my brother, Jeff and his wife, Tammy in
Tucson at my sister Coleen's house. The long awaited weekend had arrived for us
to build a back porch onto her house. I was impressed with David and Jeff's
planning and work. I think Coleen was a bit taken back
by the amount of planning and work involved.
Here is the Mastermind, Jeff.

On the Roof.

It was so hot on that roof.


Tammy taking a break.

I have a hard time explaining why I like this view of David. Thoughout our marriage I have seen David's uncles and older cousins look just like this. And now it is David's turn to have the
"older" Merrill backside. For me ~ I love it. Even though it shows his saggy pants and fuller middle. It shows his life being lived and it is in settings like this I love to note that.
Inspector Brown.

This is what Coleen does best.













Tongues???

Reunion entertainment.
I love hearing my daughters laugh. You can't hear it but these
girls were just howling. I loved it.
Sorry ~ girls ~ just had to post these!! Oh, maybe I should explain....for some reason, these girls started comparing tongues. Heidi wins. Where did that tongue come from??

Damma

My son, Tim's daughter, Abbey, came home with us after our family reunion.
She is a sweet heart. We were a little worried because she kept telling us that
all of her “friends” would be at our house when we got there.
~
She meant her cousins ~ who are usually there when she is.
It took about 24 hours for her to decide they weren’t going to show up and
then it was even OK to be the only child at our house.
She called me "Damma" and David "PaPa". We loved it.
Abbey at the Helm.She loved these Geese.Grandpa with Abbey.

Pooped out! She played hard and went to bed easy. When things got messy she would tell us that "we gotta pick this mess up". As though it was David and I who had created it.

Pete and Marian Merrill Family Reunion

Pete and Marian Merrill
Family Reunion
2009

This Spring has been so busy. When we received an invitation for
this reunion ~ I just thought “Oh, no, I can’t do one more thing!”.
But I was so glad that we went. I forgot how much I love all
these people. It was so good to see them all. Life really is about
family and that includes extended family. And David’s family
is the cream of the crop. Just good people.
Thank you, Marielle, for taking the initiative to put this
together. And we will do it again, next year!!

Sunday, April 19, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOM.




Happy Birthday, Mom

If my mom were alive she would have been 84 yesterday. I wonder what she thinks about that. My mom’s life wasn’t easy.





Mom was born in Brigham City, Utah in April 1925. She was the last child of Nels and Eleonora Johnson who were immigrants from Denmark and Sweden respectively. They named her Evelyn Irene Johnson. By the time she was four years old both of them were dead. Her mom died of cancer and her father from complications of a truck accident.

1978

Mom's sisters (as best I remember) left back Aunt May, Mom
Aunt Vi, mmmm, Aunt Ruth, Aunt Liv. Seated, Aunt Margaret.


Mom about 3-4 years old. Dog and Cat "Pals".
The writing on this picture calls her "Pat". She was a chubby kid and her sisters called her "Fatty". One day they decided that wasn't going to be a good thing but she had grown used to it so they just used the next best name that rhymed with Fatty....Patty....It eventually was shortened to Pat. Which was her name of choice throughout her life.
She was an orphan who was raised by older sisters. She would tell me that they
provided shelter, clothing and food but very little nurturing. She never mentioned that with bitterness. It was just the way it was.

She was two years younger than Boyd K. Packer, who also lived in Brigham City. I have one of her year books with an autograph written by him. They worked on the year book committee at the same time. Years later she wrote him a letter when he was made a General Authority. He actually wrote her back but he told her he didn’t remember her.

She spent a lot of time in Apricot and Cherry trees. The family had a farm and an orchard. Mom said they were never hungry during the depression.

In 1943 she met Dad. He had come to Brigham City to work on a construction site. He liked to eat at a restaurant where she worked at a waitress. She was 17 and he was 25. They married and after a while he took her to his birth place of Pinedale, AZ. Mom left beautiful Brigham City with running water and electricity and began her life in the
dry and dusty State of Arizona.



They moved around and eventually settled in Show Low, AZ. My younger brother, Jeff, and I were born in McNary. If mom had something easy it was giving birth. She would have her babies within two hours from start to finish. I wish I could say that these were happy occasions for my parents but Dad was usually absent when babies were born. He was in Idaho when I was born.

Those absences and other choices were taking a toll on their marriage. I am guessing that Mom felt alone in raising her children and bitter because that loneliness came from
selfish choices of my dad’s. I am not comfortable with sharing details ~ it is enough to say that the edges were fraying.

Mom got really sick sometime in 1957. She had a very high fever and was laid on a bed of ice. She was so sick that the Doctor’s in McNary said to “call the family” to say good-bye. She had a story to tell about that time. I loved to hear it. She said my Uncle Carl (Dad’s brother) and some others came and gave her a blessing. During the blessing she said she saw a “ball of light” gather in the top corner of the room and then it radiated down to her and she felt it flow through her from head to toe. She got better. But not better enough. She was taken to a convalescent home in Prescott. She was there for several years. We were all farmed out.

From what I have been told she was a different woman when she came home. My Aunt Irene confided in me once that Mom had been her best friend before the illness but when she came home she didn’t want anything to do with Aunt Irene. I don’t know what that was all about but it really was a sad thing for her.

These were teen age years for my brother and sisters. Randy ended up quitting school and joined the Army. Coleen and Lynne were cowgirls and followed that crowd. Mom spent a lot of time on the phone with Randy. I think my sisters got along OK with Mom but they didn’t want to go to church and this was hard for her.

Mom’s health was still bad. All of my childhood memories include her quest to “find out what is wrong with me”. She had several different surgeries that were supposed to fix everything and they never did.

When I was a freshman in high school Mom served Dad with divorce papers. I think my dad was surprised. In part because mom very seldom stood up for herself so if they had discussed divorce I think he felt that she would never really go that far. Dad moved out. Mom very seldom spoke to him the rest of her life.

The only time I felt that Mom was mildly happy was my Senior year in high school. I think she had settled some debts and grown comfortable with divorce and felt fairly good. My sister’s both married and each had a daughter of their own that Mom thoroughly enjoyed. So this was a good time.

When I was at school in Idaho at Ricks College my mom wrote me a very poignant letter expressing how much she missed me and wished that I was going to school somewhere closer to Show Low. She had never opened up to me that way. I saved that letter for years.

Mom had always had some ideas that were uncomfortable for me to digest. I won’t go into them here. But the older she got the more she pushed them. But I wish it had been different. When she was alive I just thought of her as Mom who was always different. I always gave her the benefit of a doubt. That, in part, because she was my mother. But, now, it is ok to be more honest. It isn’t being disloyal to her. I recently listened to a report about Parkinson’s Disease and that it could cause psychological problems. In Mom’s case I think it might have made her other mental problems worse. Poor Mom. I spent a lot of time thinking she was deliberately difficult.

I think she dreamed of a good life with a good marriage and happy children. It didn’t happen that way for her. So if she is thinking about that 84th birthday I hope she is thinking healthy thoughts. I hope she rejoices in the saving Grace of Jesus Christ. And that he takes our efforts and makes them whole.

My two sisters and I always say we don’t want to be like Mom in this way or that way but there are ways that I am glad to be like my mom. I used to watch her make curtains or reupholster furniture. She didn’t teach me how to do those things but she taught me that you could. I have never been afraid to tackle that kind of project. Mom was different than other woman. I followed that path, too. I liked to dress different than other girls and talk different and just walk a different path. Mom wasn’t a gossip. I am not comfortable with gossip. She was an artist. Although I don’t paint like she did I do like creating things with paint. She was an excellent seamstress. She taught me how to sew. Although Mom wasn’t a really active member of the Church she always saw to it that I was there. I am most grateful for that.

Finally, I mentioned the story of the light in her hospital room and that I loved to hear that story. She would always say how sick she felt and how weak she knew she was but she didn’t want to die because she wanted to live to raise her children. That was my favorite part of the story. I think she was granted that desire. It came at a cost to her. Her high fever may have damaged her body and mind but she was allowed to stay and be my mother.

Friday, April 10, 2009

ANGELS AMONG US




Last night our Relief Society Presidency made visits to some sisters in our ward. This is the best part of being in a Presidency ~ I love visiting the sisters. One of our sisters is 105 years old. Her name is Zina. She has been blind since early in her childhood. And a widow for half of her life. She waits on the Lord to take her home.

She lives with her son's family. I felt a warmeth and peace in their home last night. I feel it still this morning. I know the Savior is so aware of Zina. He rushes to her rescue and comforts her. He sends Angels to bless her. As I watched her family attend to her so she
could be comfortable and included I realized that these are her Angels.

Her daughter-in-law, Judy, had given her a bath and prepared her for our visit. She uses an amplifier with earphones and these were in place so we could talk to her. Judy would come make sure we were speaking into the amplifier right so Zina could hear. She just spoke tenderly and respectfully to her. Judy's voice was an Angel's voice.

Her granddaughter, Elizabeth, wanted to show us her Prom dress. She put it on. She looked beautiful. The dress was a modest peach colored dress with a full skirt and sequinned top. Elizabeth went over to Zina and took her hands and helped Zina feel the texture of the skirt and the sequins on the top. I watched Elizabeth's hands as she held Zina's hands and helped Zina touch her dress. Elizabeth's hands were Angel's hands.

I know that the Savior loves us. He knows what we need. He knows Zina needs Angels to comfort her during this last part of her life. An Angel came to comfort and strengthen him in the last part of his life. He knows how she feels. He knows what she needs. His empathy is complete and it was evidenced in this humble home last night.
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Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Our Life in Car Years

Our Cars

MORE PICTURES/TEXT TO BE ADDED LATER. Updated 25 April 2009

This is one of those “should I or shouldn’t I” posts. Let me explain. David and I sat down and listed all the cars/trucks we have owned in our years of marriage. For him it was with great pride ~ for me ~ I’d rather not say……

I hope I tell these things right. I am open to corrections. We counted cars
that we pretty much paid for. There was a car or two that the kids
bought or made payments on themselves.

Of course, I don't hae pictures of all of the cars so I used the internet
to show the make and model (close). David said if we had had some of THOSE cars we

would still have them.
I don’t know where I missed the fact that David was such a car nut. It would not have made any difference to me when it came to marrying him. I was definitely enough in love with him that I would have been blind to the troubles that the future car lot mentality would bring. I always have thought that David should have sold cars but it would be like me working in a fabric store…..I would keep bringing home what the store sold.

I knew that David had had several cars/trucks in the years I knew him in high school/post high school. But it never occurred to me that this would be a journey of so many wheels when I married him. So, let me for warn you, this might be long.

(1971) 1.
1970 Datsun B210
My dad bought me a 1970 Datsun B210 close to the end of my Senior year. It was butterscotch color. The payment was $67.00 a month. I drove it for 4 years and when David and I got married it was the only car we had. We drove it to Manti when we were married. I have personal stories about that car but for this post they don’t apply.

(1975)

1976 Honda 250XL
This was our first purchase as a married couple. We lived in Joseph City and north of town was an area called the bad lands. Every body had a motorcycle to ride out there. (The beginning of many “reasons” to buy a vehicle.) It was a one man operation so he sold it to a school teacher.

3.
1963 Ford Van
The teacher gave us $500 for the bike so we bought a 1963 Ford Van. David took a body shop class and took some of the dents out of the van and we were going to put shag carpet on the floors and walls of the interior. At that time it was a cool thing to do. We went camping at the Lakeside campground and once at Fools Hollow. That makes me laugh. Can’t remember who we sold that one to.

4.
1973 Dodge 4x4 Shortbed Truck

I was pregnant with Peter….pregnant and soooo sick. We moved to Show Low right here. We went to the Temple in Mesa and for recreation we went through a couple of car lots. Honestly, this was not my kind of recreation but I was too sick to object. As we turned a corner in the lot…there it was. There was no going back. The salesmen said we could use the Datsun in trade. I just bawled. I know it was because I was sick and that car was mine. The three of them sat there until I stopped and we signed papers. It was really pretty and loaded. This is the truck David drove me to the hospital in to deliver Peter.
This is the closest I could find to ours. Not so pretty. David wished his looked like this one.
(1976)

5.
1973 Chevy 2 wheel drive Pickup
Little foggy here………but at some point we decided that we didn’t need that Dodge so we traded it for a Chevy. It was red and white. It may have had something to do with our moving back to Joseph City ~ which we did because David’s dad bought the grocery store there and asked David to come and help run it.

(1977)

6.
1958 Chevy Stepside Hot Rod 327 Turdo 400
We sold the ’73 Chevy to a kid in Joseph City so David could buy the ’58. I should note here that there wasn’t much to do in Joe City so motorcycles and cars filled that gap. We only had that one five or six months. It wasn’t that practical of a vehicle and it was the only car we had. Can’t remember who bought it from us.

7.
1965 Chevy Half-ton Fleetside Shortbed
This was a pretty truck. David bought it from a firefighter in Peoria. It was only two wheel drive but it was nice. David liked to drive it. When Michael was born at St. Joseph’s in Phoenix David drove down in that truck.

(1978)

8.
1964 Impala SS
David can’t remember how we found this car. He says it was like a moth to a flame. It was a two door car. The thing I remember most about this car was a trip to Yellowstone. That was a memorable trip. Firstly, that car made it up there and back. Secondly, we were in Idaho Falls and decided to wash it and the pressure from the water hose blew the paint off the car. We sold it to a Indian guy that ran a trading post in Joe City.

(1979)

9.
1965 Impala
Can’t remember where we bought this car. All I know is David really wanted it because it was the same year as the Chevy Fleetside. He thought we were really classy. All I remember thinking it was a newer model and had paint on it. We sold the store this year and moved back to Show Low after a brief move to Provo. And I was happy pregnant with Jill. We had it painted and we loved it. We sold it to my brother, Randy, we also loved it.

10.
1973 Dodge 4x4 Shortbed Tan 4 speed
We needed a truck to get wood. I remember we had $2000 (how we had that money I can’t remember) and drove to Flagstaff and low and behold on the side of the street was that truck. And it was $2000. We were so excited. This was the truck that David took me to the hospital for Jill and Tim’s birth.

(1980)

11.
1974 Green Volvo Station Wagon
I always wanted a Volvo. And for what it is worth ~ it was a smooth riding car. But it had a cracked block. That was probably caused from a time I drove it to Show Low and the motor overheated. It also had to have the alternator replaced and that was about $400. We didn’t have that kind of money. We sold it to a used car dealer for about nothing. We had sold our house in Show Low and moved to Pinetop in October of 1980.

12.
1973 Green Mustang ~ not the fast back.
When we came back to Show Low, Dad offered David a job. (Let me mention here that we owe our living to that job offer ~ David is still appraising ~thanks, Dad.) Dad was picking up Mustangs right and left so he gave one to David and one to Jeff to drive. That was nice ~ it gave our family two cars to drive.

13.
1969 Sky Blue/Blue Mustang
Another one of Dad’s Mustangs. Dad wanted to drive the ’73 Green Mustang.

(1984)

14.
1984 Red Ford Fiesta
The first part of this year David and Jeff bought out my Dad’s business. They paid for it by building his and Beverly’s house in Pinedale. Part of the business included this Fiesta.
David drove it for a while and then he and Jeff gave it to my mom. She was without a car for some reason at this time. That was the last car she ever drove.

15.
1971 Buick Skylark ~ Blue
I was pregnant with Heidi and I told David that I wanted him to take me to the hospital in a car when it was time for her to be born. We went to Flagstaff and bought this car from a dealer. We had to replace a rear leaf spring on it. Once we took it to St. David and on the way home, in Globe, the oil light came on. David suspected the oil pump. We pulled into a restaurant parking lot and turned it off. David opened the hood looked inside and closed the hood. We just decided to drive on. We got home and the next morning he took it into the shop and the mechanic told us that the oil pump was shot. We always considered it a miracle that our little family made it home safely.

16.
1984 Dodge D50 Pickup
The business bought this truck. It was sorta light blue and two wheel drive.
This truck lasted for a long time. Not much to say about it. It was nice.

17.
Mid 80’s Full Size Pontiac Station Wagon
We traded the Skylark for this station wagon at Horne Auto. Heidi had been born and we needed more space. And space we got! It had a third seat in the back that faced back. We didn’t take great trips in it but we did go down the Coronado Trail and over to the Tonto Bridge National Monument and short trips like that. I really liked that car.

Peter busted out a window of this car ~ he was hitting a baseball with a bat.



18.
1986 Plymouth Reliant (K car)
This is why we bought this car: David’s sister Phyllis from Blackfoot, Idaho had one. She would stuff those Idaho farm boys in the back and JoAnna, her daughter, in the front and drive all the way to Arizona to visit. We thought they were the best of people and decided that we could be like them and do the same thing. And it got great gas mileage.
So for a number of years we stuffed our kids into it. The only trip I remember is one to Tucson for Spring Break. Russ Jones, a friend of Pete’s, stayed with us and we went to the Air Show in Tucson. I was pregnant with Lee and we were all in that car. Russ never questioned all seven and a half of us in that car. Lee came home from the Hospital when she was born in this car.

Good bye to a Good Friend

Somewhere in here we sold the Dodge Truck. Pete had started driving and we bought him an old truck, which will be mentioned later, and we all went out and got wood west of Pinedale. I guess there were people taking wood illegally out there. We weren’t. We got two nice loads, one for Pete’s smaller truck and one for David’s Dodge. Long story short: some guy who saw us leaving the forest boundaries and coming into Pinedale came after us. He drove like a crazy man around us and tried to run Pete off the highway. We saw all this and it, can I say mildly, ticked us off. Pete did stop and so did he and we pulled up behind them both. This guy was ripping on Pete and we came up asking what was going on and he started in on us and the illegal wood and how the people in Pinedale pretty much owned that forest anyway. I’m not in people’s faces very much but I was that night. I remember telling him my roots were deeper in Pinedale that his were and that my dad was born there and that he had no right pulling over a 16 year old new driver on the busy highway. I am sure David had some choice words, too. The guy backed off and we went home. David had been thinking about selling his truck and that was the tipping point. We sold it to our neighbors, the Smith’s. Skip said he had watched David fix that truck for years and had confidence that they were getting a good vehicle. And, honestly, to the best of our thinking, they were. But about a week later something big fell apart in it. We were as sad about that as they were. It sat parked in the back of their yard for a couple of years and then they sold it. I was sad to see it leave them, too.

We drove that truck to Yellowstone once with a camper on it. With a camper shell we drove it to Blackfoot for a Missionary farewell. We camped up to Big Lake many times in it. We drove it to St. David with the three oldest children. And, again, Jill and Tim both came home from the hospital in it. And all that wood we cut to heat our home.

Our big planned trip to Yellowstone almost didn’t happen because a bearing had spun on the axle. David and Pete drove to a wrecking yard in Holbrook because we thought there was an axle there. No so. So they drove 90 miles an hour to Springerville to another wrecking yard and got a new axle. Tim Storms fixed it and we took off late in the afternoon and spent the night near Page in a lightening storm.

There was a lot of stability in owning that truck for so many years. Once it was gone I used to feel like we were similar to displaced farmers…..no implements to do what we had always done.

(1989-1995)
Quick summary of the Suburbans

19.
1976 Chevy Suburban 4x4
We bought this first of many Suburbans after Lee was born. We really wanted something that we could all go into the forest with. We ended up selling it about a year after we bought it. We couldn’t afford two car payments.

20.
1974 Copper Suburban 4x4
But we were sold on Suburbans. So the next one came a year later. This one belonged to some people we knew and they told us it got good mileage. But it had been a vehicle that pulled their boat and had a huge motor in it. Not so good mileage.

21.
1985 Blue/Gray 4x4 Suburan
Traded the copper Suburan for this one. We paid it off and decided to put a new motor in it. We got screwed. The motor never ran right and would actually stop on us and the mechanic that put it in also took our good carburator and hubs. He had a truck the same year as our suburban and he traded his old for our new. For a while we would take it back in and they would say they tweeked the motor and we would take it back. . We had no way to prove it. We had plans of hanging onto it for along time. We had even had the transmission rebuilt.

This is the Suburban that we took Pete to the mission home in Provo in. The Tuesday after we got home from Provo, I pulled out of our driveway to go to work and before I had gone 150 yards the transmission had completely fallen apart. It sounded like metal grinding and bending and then it just stopped. It was under warranty so they fixed it. But by this time David had lost all confidence in it so when he passed Darner Motors of Show Low and saw…..

22.
1991 Chevy Blue/White Suburban
He called me on the phone and said he wanted to look at it. I loved it, too. We bought it. I remember taking the kids for a ride in it up into the country club and driving slow and Jill asked me why I was driving so slow and I remember thinking that it seemed like such a big vehicle that I had to drive it slow. I got over that. We loved that Suburban. It had all the bells and whistles and looked nice. We took it to Yellowstone once with Heidi and Lee (Tim was at BYU basketball camp)and to a lot of games and meets and club stuff. We planned on keeping it forever. We had it lifted and David had big ticket items replaced.

We had it when Pete and Brittany got married. We helped them move to Laramie with it. I remember Brittany thinking it was a huge vehicle. I remember thinking I liked that.

We had it when Jill and John got married.

We had it when the Snowflake Temple was under construction. We had had some maintenance done on it one week and that Sunday Bishop Shane Hall asked each family to take their children down and spend some time near the Temple. We took the Suburban.
Lee and Heidi were in the back and Dave and I in the front. On the way there David asked if I could hear the whine in the rear end? As best as I hear those things, I said, “yes”. He said I am going to get that fixed and then this Suburban is going to be solid for us for a long time. I liked hearing that. It was paid for and I still loved it. On our return trip ~ on the divide ~ the oil light came one. Now normally, David would immediately stop but he had already reattached some wires that the mechanic missed and he thought this was more of the same but less than a minute later the bearings froze up on the crank shaft. We limped into town and called Beverly for a ride home.

We found out the next morning that to replace the motor was more than the Suburban was worth. (We came to the conclusion that the mechanic had dropped something into the valve assembly and that plugged up an oil port ~ but, again, ~ no way to prove that.)

(2002)

23.
2000 Oldmobile Intrigue

Hatch Motors took our Suburban in trade. This was at a point where we had felt that we were spending a lot on gas. That was ok because the Suburban was paid for but we now could change our thinking and we did. We bought a sedan. The Intrigue was a nice car and it did get good gas mileage. But it had issues…..we had issues. It was a car! We had been in SUVs for so long that this felt like “the other people” car. I felt like an
old lady in it. And the Suburban was big so we never touched each other. Heidi was in high school and Lee was big herself and David would tell them to “quit kicking the
seat and keep your hands off the windows”. I know that was because he was too close to them. Needless to say our eyes were always wandering when we drove by car dealers.

24.
2000 Mitsubishi Montero

Good bye Intrigue. David saw this pretty green Montero and we didn’t think twice about trading it. And we liked it. But then again ~ it was small. Tim had come home from his mission and went to Utah. We made plans for a trip to Disneyland for Spring Break and Tim drove home and went with us. Somebody had to ride in the cargo space so all of us could fit in. That was ok. It was an adventure. But our hearts still wanted a Suburban.

(2003)

25.
2000 Chevy 4x4 Suburban

Horne Auto knew we were looking for a Suburban. They took one in trade and
called us. We were sold. David and I both agree that that was the nicest car we ever owned. I still love it. We drove it everywhere. Like the other suburbans I always felt safe in it because it was big. I liked that we could load a ton of family in it and take them to get Christmas trees or whatever. We moved Heidi to EA in it. That broke my heart. We took it to Silverton to take Heidi to her summer job. Tim and Connie were engaged and they went with us. They sat in the middle seat between us all and never even knew we were there. Pete and Brittany would borrow it when they flew home. It was just such a good car. But we were reaching a point where we needed to change our thinking again. Heidi married and Lee would be leaving so just me in that big old Suburban seemed a bit politically incorrect. So we took it and David’s big Chevy truck and traded it.

(2008)

26.
2006 Toyota Tacoma 4x4

Now that was a nice truck. It got pretty good mileage and was really solid. David always called it “Tricia’s truck”. Of all the cars we owned to this point this is the one that people really liked. Like all of our cars we drove it to games and camps and clubs. There isn’t that much to say about it except that it’s trade-in value was very helpful.

27.
2008 Pontiac Vibe

With the price of gas going through the roof and all of our children out of the house we decided we needed a car that got extra good gas mileage. David studied cars and decided we needed to look for a Pontiac Vibe. Horne Auto went looking and found one that had been used by Hertz. If I had my druthers I would have anything but white but white it is.
In some ways this car takes us full circle ~ as we started our marriage in a small car that got good gas mileage. But, then again, it isn’t a 4x4 or a suburban. But when we go places and get 36 (that is the best) miles per gallon we are soooo ok with this car.


DAVID’S WORK CARS

(1975)

28.
1973 Datsun Pickup

We are calling this the first work vehicle David drove. It was part of the store in Joseph City. It was always beat up looking and faded. It was used for garbage runs and meat runs to Show Low. After David’s dad bought the store and we moved back to Joseph City from Show Low and the same truck was still running the same errands. One Sunday evening we came home from a church event after dark and David saw two men behind the store. They were loading all the boxes of empty pop bottles into their truck. (This was still when there was a return on bottles for cash.) He ran over and got that old truck and went to confront them. They took off on the highway and he took off after them. It scared me to death. I didn’t know where he was going or what might happen. He told me he got it going 80 miles an hour and it sounded like a jet. And he was being left behind. So he stopped and came home.

Side note: He knew who it was. We never recovered the bottles but one of the men came into the store for meat one day and David confronted him with a cheese knife and the guy just turned and walked out and never came back into the store.

29.
1972 Green Mustang Sedan back 302 motor

I mentioned this car before because it factored into our family life. But it was one of the Mustangs that dad’s business owned. It wasn’t David’s style of car but it was a second car. He said if it had been the fast back Mustang that would be a different story.

30.
1969 Blue Mustang 3 speed 6 cylinder ~ great mileage

This car is still running. It was sold to a lady in Taylor and David sees it every now and then. This was dad’s car, too. But when we bought his business it came with the business so it became David’s car. He took Pete and Jill with him to St. David and he just made a flat platform in the back seat for them to play on as they traveled down. He also shared this car with a mouse. He never emptied the trash out of it until it was seat high. Perfect home for a mouse. We would notice mouse droppings in cups, etc. but it didn’t make sense that a mouse was in the car. He was driving once and thought something fell out of the dash and it was the mouse and it ran across his feet. He could hardly believe it. But he set a trap and caught it.

31.
Red Ford Fiesta

This car got 40 miles per gallon. It also came with the business. It was SMALL. In cold weather the carburetor would freeze up and he would have to spray carburetor cleaner down its throat to keep it going. We drove it to Phoenix for Thanksgiving once. There was David, Pete, Jill, Tim, my mom, and me in that car. We stayed the Friday after Thanksgiving and went Christmas shopping. So we added all of that to the crowd. We bought the Chipmunk Christmas tape and played it on the way home. I can say that we also had Heidi with us. I was starting to get sick with her. We ended up giving that car to mom. She was genuinely surprised and pleased.

32.
1985 Dodge D50 Light Blue Low Rider

Bought this one brand new. It was the first car he ever had with air conditioning. He used it for years and paid it off. We are thinking that this was the truck he took to get a little wood. A ranger came walking out of the trees and gave him a ticket and took his wood. We started buying wood after that. David gave this truck to Pete and he drove it for about 2 years before he graduated from high school.

33.
1989 Mazda Pickup 4x4 Shortbed Pickup

This truck keeps getting forgotten for some reason. David traded this to Scott Kay for the 4runner below. The guy who bought it from Scott thought he bought a Toyota. David knows this because one of the girls that worked at the Title Co. knew this truck because David stopped in for work all the time there. That same lady was the wife of the guy. She said he came home and told her he had bought a Toyota. She went out and looked at it and said, “it says Mazda”. Isn’t that funny?

34.
1990 Toyota 4x4 4Runner 5 Speed 4 cylinder

Bought this one from Scott Kay. It had a bad vibration that turned out to be a bent rear drive shaft. He took it out and while they were fixing it he drove it around on the front drive shaft. He put a lot…a lot of miles on this motor. So he traded it on a Jeep.

35.
1997 Jeep Wrangler

This had a soft top, white paint, air conditioning, 5 speed and it was a lemon. He really liked it but it kept having engine troubles. He would take it in and they would keep it for a week and he would drive it for a week and they would take it for a week and he would drive it for a week. So before the warranty ran out he took it back in one more time and said you keep it ~ I’ll take this truck.

36.
1995 Chevy 4x4 Half Ton Long Bed Pickup.

This was a utility vehicle as well as a work truck. Just a nice looking Chevy. This was the first time he realized that you loose power by putting bigger tires on a vehicle. He had been able to drive over the mountain going to Round Valley with out shifting gears but once he put bigger tired on it he had to shift into third to get over the top with any kind of speed.

Pete drove this some when he came home from his mission. He got stopped once for speeding on his way to Flagstaff. The officer that stopped him saw his scriptures on the seat next to him and said something like, “I have a set like those at home” and just gave him a warning.

37.
1999 Nissan Frontier 4x4 ~ 5 Speed

Traded the Chevy for this. It was used. But David really liked this truck. He would drive it to Wyo. to watch Pete play football. It had a lot of power and it was fun to drive.

38.
2002 Blue Chevy 4x4 Shortbed

In my opinion, this truck was for show. It was pretty and David put a lift under it and it was even nicer looking then. He would have kids come up to him and say how much they loved it. He decided it was too young looking for an old fart like him. But instead of trading it he offered it to Tim. Who, of course, said, “sure, I’d love to have it…payments and all”.

(2004)
39.


2005 White Chevy 4x4 Longbed
2500 HD 6.0 ~ Real Truck

Pres. Bush had given people a tax break if they would buy these big vehicles. We could write the price of the vehicle off. That is all well and good for one year. We only did it once…with this truck. David says he misses that truck. All the men in the family loved that truck.

40.

1985 Black CJ7 Jeep

This is my favorite jeep. It was a 4 cylinder. So it was easy to handle. This is
How David got it: He saw it out in a field and found the owner and
asked how much he would sell it for. It was some outrageous amount. David
offered him $800. They parted ways. Later he called David and they agree
on $1000. It didn’t have a transmission and rats in the air cleaner and it
was filthy. David and Tim worked together quite a bit on this one. They cleaned
It up and David had a transmission. They put it in and poured gas
Down it and it started up. It was cool

OK ~ there was a car dance here ~

Tim had the Blue Chevy
Heidi had a red 4runner
David had the White truck

Tim found Connie so we traded him the 4 runner for the Blue Chevy and then
took it and traded it for a red 2005- 6 Alero for Heidi.
This will all wash out as we talk about the kids cars but for now
Once Heidi got married we took the Alero back and traded it.

41.

1999 Jeep Cherokee

We found this at Superstition Springs. It was brown gold. We left the Alero and came home with the Cherokee. David put really nice wheels on it and a 3’ lift on it. He drove it for a long time. It went to Colorado more than once. Heidi and Jeremiah drove it on one trip there and my sister, Coleen, drove it home from Colorado last summer. I like Cherokees. It was a good work vehicle for David. It presented itself nicely also.

We used the big Chevy in trade with the Suburban to buy the Tacoma. It sat parked much more than it was ever used. Like I said he still misses it.


42.

1985 Chevy Long Bed Pick Up.
We bought this to get wood with. And we did! And we will!
I like to ride in it best of all. It reminds me of trucks gone by
and how I felt being in a real truck. David gets compliments on
it ~ believe it or not. His best is an Apache guy who told
him he had a “bad ass pickup”.

43.

2004 Rubicon

He traded the Cherokee, which he still misses, for the Rubicon. He doesn’t have any intentions of getting rid of it until he dies, in which case, it will be me that gets rid of it ~ if I do. We like it. It is soooo comfortable to go places on or off the road.

There is a little story that goes with it: I was down with Heidi because DeLaine had been born and Tim and Connie had come over one evening and Jeremiah started asking me if I had talked to David about the Rubicon that he was thinking about buying. Tim got right in on the story. I got so mad! Here he was talking to these guys about a new car and I didn’t know anything about it. So next morning when he called me he mentioned that he had been looking at Rubicons on line and I just lit into him. As it turns out those guys were jerking me around and David hadn’t even talked to them. But they were on to something because by the weekend he had a Rubicon.

Kids Cars

Peter
1992


44.


1973 Orange Datsun Pickup

Some good friends of ours, the Hardy’s, had this old Datsun pickup that Doug had driven for years. When Pete was turning 16 it just so happened that they were ready to sell it. I think we paid $400 for it. It wasn’t in very good shape but it was wheels. He drove it his sophomore year. It burned so much oil that Pete would have to pull over and clean off the spark plugs so it would run enough for him to get home. They put special spark plug extenders in it so it would run longer distances.


45.



1985 Dodge D50

Pete sold the Datsun to a guy he worked with at the Country Club and became the
Owner of the Blue Dodge D50. It looked so much nicer than the Datsun. He drove that until the spring of his Senior year and then sold it to a classmate and used the money to buy:

46.


1973 Jeep

This was a project. Pete had his mission call and this was a good distraction waiting for June to come. It had this aluminum top on it and it was yellow. That top was sooo ugly. They sold it to a guy who was happy to have it. They took it apart and put it back together. It had a bad carburetor and would flood out when driven over a bump. Pete took me for a ride in it out to a cookout by Los Burros where David was. We thought we were so cool driving up in a jeep. People started laughing at us because our faces were covered with dirt. Live and learn. When Pete left on his mission we sold it to help pay for some of his mission. I wished we could have kept it.

1995

47.
1986-7 Jeep Cherokee

We got this for Pete when he came home from his mission. He drove it to Utah and then to NAU and then EA.


Jill

(1996)
48.

1968 Ford Pick up

There was a Webb family that had their kids all drive an old truck to school. Each one of them used this same truck. Even the girls. So we thought it would be cool for Jill to drive an old truck, too. So we bought this old truck from a guy in Lakeside. He was the dog napper….still is. It didn’t have any brakes. The thing is Jill had blown out her knee and really couldn’t drive this truck.

One winter evening, after Jill’s knee surgery, Jill, Tim and their cousin, Chad, took
a ride up into the woods. They never came back. So dad and I took off looking
for them. We will always consider finding them a miracle. We had to make a
left or a right turn ~ we went left. We found them walking down the dirt
road. Jill shouldn’t have been on her knee but they needed to get out. They
had driven the truck off the road and it got stuck.

49.


1986 Toyota 4x4 Pickup

David took Jill and Tim down to Phoenix and got the Toyota from a wrecking yard. It had a salvage title. We had to put a new motor in it. Jill drove it for years. She took it to school with her. The timing belt broke in Thatcher and she had to go find a mechanic to fix it. That was a big learning curve. While she was driving it once it really overheated and scared her. We decided it was time for something different so David took her car shopping.


Dodge Stratus

This was a pretty car. I can’t claim it as one of ours because Jill made the payments on it. Those payments really can take the joy out of life.

Tim

(1997)


50.
1968 Ford Truck

We still had the Ford truck when Tim turned 16 so he drove that for a while. He had Heidi with him one morning on the way to school and he pulled out in front of a lady. She swerved but still hit the driver side front end. Nobody was really hurt but in the end we paid for carpal tunnel surgery for the other driver. That was our only accident that involved our insurance with the kids. I didn’t like that process.

David and Tim pulled it apart and put a new fender and other parts on it and it ran for the rest of that year. Then Tim sold it to a guy he worked with at the Country Club.


51.
1981 Toyota 4x4 Pickup

We can’t remember where we bought this one. But we must have taken the money from the Ford and then some and this is what Tim drove next. He didn’t drive it very long. David said it was gutless and leaked a lot of oil. They decided to sell it. It had little tires on it so David picked up some big used tires and rims and put them on it and sold it the next day.

If we remember right, Tim had an accident in this truck. He was at Seminary
and parked in what he considered “his usual spot”. Chris Paxman parked
behind him. So Tim gets in his truck to drive away and backs into Chris’
car. He always maintained that it was Chris’s fault for parking without
remembering that Tim always parked where he parked and backed out where
he backed out. I wonder how he would approach this now as a DPS officer.

52.
1991 Toyota Corolla

Personally, I hated this car. It was so out of character for our family. But David was ok with it. David and Tim went shopping in the valley for this one. They found it on a car lot and the dealer did not want cash for it. He wanted them to finance it. They finally talked him into the cash deal. This was Tim’s city boy car. It didn’t take him long to decide that it wasn’t all that fun.

53.
1981 Jeep CJ7

This was the first of the CJ7’s. They got this in Payson. They traded the Corolla and two guns. I got a bike in the deal. Tim did a lot of work on this. He did a lot of the mechanic work on it. He drove this to Thatcher the semester before he went on his mission. The heater didn’t work very well. It didn’t have a top either. He brought a friend home one weekend and they nearly froze to death. We were able to get a soft top for it and that helped a bit. He parked it at home when he left on his mission.

54.
1988 Red 4runner

We bought this when Tim came home from his mission. David and I drove to Phoenix and bought it from this guy who called it his “fishing truck”. It was in pretty good shape. Tim drove it to Utah to live. He got a ticket on the Salt Lake City freeway for going 107 miles per hour.

2003 Blue Chevy Shortbed

Mentioned above.


Heidi

(2001)
55.
1986 Toyota 4x4 Pickup

This was the pickup that Jill drove. When Jill got the Stratus we told Heidi that we had traded it in on the Stratus. She was mad. I can’t quite remember how Jill did this but she
took Heidi to the pickup and “gave” it to her. Heidi didn’t know how to drive a stick. David would take her out and work with her. She would cry. She would take Lee and they would drive around the loop. Lee told me later that “Heidi cussed, mom”.
{We finally sold this truck to a lady in Taylor. David ran into her one day and she told him that not long after she bought it that she was opening the gate to her property and the Toyota started to roll and it knocked her over and ran over her torso. I guess she wasn’t hurt too bad because she said she had to get up and get the Toyota and drive to the doctor. She said her husband had told her to watch out because she wouldn’t put on the emergency brake and that one day it would run over her.}

(2002)
56.
1988 Red 4runner

This is the 4runner Tim got when he came home from his mission. When he took the Blue Chevy, Heidi took this. She took it to EA. She was coming home for Christmas and it broke down in Salt River Canyon. How scary is that. We misunderstood the phone message we got from a friend and we kept waiting for her to come home with someone else. She never came so David and I drove down and we found her and a friend sitting in her car waiting for us. They had watched movies until the battery went dead and were just hoping somebody would come and rescue them. David had a U-Haul with him and we also rescued the truck. The motor was shot. David fixed it.

(2004)
57.
2003 Alero

This car was nice looking. Heidi got a job in Silverton, Colorado the first summer out of college. And remember Tim and Connie were getting married so Tim got the 4runner and Heidi got a more dependable car for her trips home from Colorado.

58.
1995 Cherokee
David found this Cherokee for Heidi and Jeremiah. It wasn’t a wedding gift but
every time one of children got married they took a car with them. I can’t remember exactly when Heidi got it ~ before or after or during the time they were married.


Lee

(2006)
59.
1991 Cherokee

We bought this off the side of the road on Porter Mountain.
It was blue and older for sure. But we thought it would send the
same message that we meant the other kids to have.
You don’t need a great car in high school.

(2008)
60.
2002 Grand Prix

We traded the Cherokee for a good safe, good mileage, dependable car
for Lee to take to college. And it has been all that and to date she still
has it.



Odds and Ends
Suzuki Four wheeler ~ early 80’s
A couple of Honda Three wheelers ~ 90’s
Yard sale motorcycle ~ 90’s
A couple travel trailers
A couple campers
Two Tent Trailers
Motor Home
Two quads ~ current
Utility Trailer
Flat Trailer
Quad Trailer (share with John and Jill)

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