The sisters in our Relief Society are in the middle
of a program called
21 Days Closer to Christ.
It has been a good experience for me.
Each day we have a reading exercise and
then a "journey" for that day.
Day 14 was about Martha in the story of
Mary and Martha. I appreciated the approach
that was taken about Martha. So many times
she is characterized as the lesser of the two.
Our reading emphasized her gifts--her talents,
and encouraged us to consider our gifts and
how they can bless the lives of others.
Martha's gift--talent to serve is mentioned
more than once in the New Testament.
I have thought about these two women
all day. They were both followers of Christ.
They were true to Him. They both loved Him.
Martha's heart was in the right place.
Her preparations were for Him. That was
her way. She asked Christ to consider
the work that was not completed and the
fact that Mary had stopped helping. He
simply told her that there was a better
way. It was an invitation to let other things
go and come and be with Him. He
helped her to see that enough was enough.
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Am I Mary or Martha? In the past I have always
considered myself a Martha for two reasons:
1. Mary is a woman who never forgets her
devotion to Christ. She is always watching
for Him and preparing her heart for Him.
2. Though Martha is devoted she is also
caught up in the idea that things have to
be perfect to show devotion. Things like
organization and cleanliness.
I have always operated better if things are clean.
Saturday evening is for final touches
on the house so Sunday will be perfect, for
example. I think Martha felt this way
about her life. Mary could see past the
clutter. Martha and I cannot.
I have always observed the Mary's
in my life and in comparison I
see myself as less than these. I know
some wonderful women. When I grow
up I want to be them!
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This one other thought.
Maybe I am both Mary and Martha.
In the early morning I am Mary.
I love the quiet time to read
the scriptures and ponder and pray.
I love writing down my thoughts.
I am sad when I see the clock
telling me it is time to do other things.
And so enters Martha and all
the other things. But my other things
bring comfort to our lives. I have
to take care of things like David's work.
It is needful. I make our home
clean so it is comfortable and
keeps tensions away. The
"cumbered about" list goes
on and on.
So to say I am or anyone is
only a Mary or a Martha is
too narrow for my thinking.
If we are to be one
more than the other then, yes,
I would be Mary. But I think
Martha is a learner, a seeker,and
a follower. And she uses her
gifts to bless the lives of others.
And she is loved dearly by
Christ.
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And then one final thought.
As I was thinking of my years
of raising children I was too
much a Martha. If I have
one thing I would change,
it would be that need to have
a perfect environment for
things to happen. When the
house was clean life could begin.
There is the thought "life is what
happens when you are busy
making other plans".
Don't let "other plans" rob you
of being with your children.
Life is about relationships.
Choose that better part.